And words are all i have..

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As long as you are not dumb, you have one of the world’s greatest superpower, the power of speech. An infant’s cry tells a mother that the child needs her. Speech helps you to exchange thoughts with each other, tell each other that you love them, you need them, and you care for them; apart from your actions. Even if you are miles away from your loved ones, you can converse with them.

It is absolutely correct without a doubt that your actions speak louder than your words. A boy can easily say “I love you” to a girl, but he will have to prove it so that the girl can realize. But what if you are miles away from your loved ones? Then in any kind of communication, the only thing that will help you to hold on to your relation is words that you utter.

Once the feelings are declared, it is sometimes felt necessary to keep reminding others what they mean to you. This helps a lot in assuring that even if you fail at anything at times, there are other things in life that you have achieved successfully. Those are the successful relations and loving people in your world. In a pressurized situation, soothing words are the only ointment to all the wounds.

But have you ever got hurt because of what somebody said to you? This is so common nowadays. If you are angry, you lose your mind and swear at anyone in your vicinity. Everyone is fighting their own wars. Once you have said something, it might take a lifetime to rectify it. Yes, you can very well swear at anyone if you wish to end that relation or if you want to have bitterness in your relation with them. It is not only necessary that a lawyer should know the value of each word uttered. The one who has got hurt by someone’s words knows it too. It is up to one’s decision whether to give the same punishment and hurt others too because you yourself got hurt?

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